digital garden of reflections, hopes and fears



something that can help with coping with someone who 'distributes disinformation' (a term which could be interpreted as judgemental) is:

  • respect the other in his or her view
  • respect this even if it doesn't feel quite right
  • i am who i am and the other is who he/she is
  • i don't have to change the other person

this can created some space so mutual understanding and some respect could perhaps grow. the tricky thing can be the disinformation. if you are truth and beauty one can be fairly attached to clarity and differentiating right from wrong as well. This causes one to expect or even demand it from others as well. If people do not comply or understand your point of view, conflict can ensue. How to 'love your enemies'?